My reviews on my new children's book are in! I'm incredibly thankful and happy to those who have read "Moon Girl" so far and enjoyed it. Since this is just the beginning of a new journey, I want to share some of these thoughts from talented literary professionals. I'm so humbly greatful.
http://www.amazon.com/Moon-Girl-self-worth-valuable-relationships/product-reviews/1451504136
Wednesday, April 11, 2012
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Thursday, March 1, 2012
2012 Leaping Up
2012 is the year that everyone thinks that an apocalyptic change will take place. Has it started already?
The good news is recorded unemployment rates have gone down and the stock market is finally creeping up. What does this mean for those who haven't been working for a few years? The word that comes to mind is opportunity.
Just look around you, there is something happening even if you don't realize it. Don't rely on stats alone, you have to hear what people are saying. Networking is something you must do even if you feel that you have nothing to contribute to a business. You have to keep it in mind that you are meeting to deal with people not commodoties. People are humans who have feelings like empathy. I'm almost positive that the person you encounter share a commonality with you even if it means both your kids play basketball. You'll be surprise that you make talk about what you do but eventually, you drift to a more personable moment. If you are one of those who just stick to one topic, don't be surprise that your conversation dwindles or just get interrupted.
Relationships are key to any successful transacation. If you want something from someone, you have to establish trust. Trust is something that is earned through time, creating opportunity for success. Referrals are done through relationships. It doesn't matter if you are using social media or getting your morning Starbucks latte. What are you waiting for? Go and makes connections and create opportunity.
The good news is recorded unemployment rates have gone down and the stock market is finally creeping up. What does this mean for those who haven't been working for a few years? The word that comes to mind is opportunity.
Just look around you, there is something happening even if you don't realize it. Don't rely on stats alone, you have to hear what people are saying. Networking is something you must do even if you feel that you have nothing to contribute to a business. You have to keep it in mind that you are meeting to deal with people not commodoties. People are humans who have feelings like empathy. I'm almost positive that the person you encounter share a commonality with you even if it means both your kids play basketball. You'll be surprise that you make talk about what you do but eventually, you drift to a more personable moment. If you are one of those who just stick to one topic, don't be surprise that your conversation dwindles or just get interrupted.
Relationships are key to any successful transacation. If you want something from someone, you have to establish trust. Trust is something that is earned through time, creating opportunity for success. Referrals are done through relationships. It doesn't matter if you are using social media or getting your morning Starbucks latte. What are you waiting for? Go and makes connections and create opportunity.
Thursday, April 7, 2011
Don't Settle for a job just because you are layed off...
Yesterday I attended my Suffolk Alumni Session on Rebuilding Self-Confidence After Losing Your Job. I thought it was great because there was one thing that made real sense from the meeiting...To go back in time and think back on accomplishments before you were layed off. When fellow alums were sharing their stories, they all perked up! I really think this is valuable advice because folks tend to grab anything after being fired and really don't take the time to reflect on themselves. What is your value? Don't settle because you don't want to go in a position and be miserable at it.
I remember when I started in the staffing industry and it was all exciting because of a real supportive boss and a good team and the company incentives. I stopped having that "high" when I got promoted since I developed more responsibility and worked alone. Although it was great to make more money, I really had to be accountable for a lot more. My stress level and grey hairs began to emerge.
People have to remember that self worth can be adjustable more that the job duties that is embedded in a company policy. So what if there is a waiting period. It is a great time to reflect and take on a project and develop a sense of purpose on a daily basis. Got to pay the bills? People have to distinguish a job and a career. If you know that a minial job will pay the phone bill, that is not a career choice. A career relates to passion. You have to love what you do and the amount of money you receive is secondary. Your mental health is more valuable than a job. So folks, just ask yourself what will make you happy and go back in time and think about those memorable moments.
I remember when I started in the staffing industry and it was all exciting because of a real supportive boss and a good team and the company incentives. I stopped having that "high" when I got promoted since I developed more responsibility and worked alone. Although it was great to make more money, I really had to be accountable for a lot more. My stress level and grey hairs began to emerge.
People have to remember that self worth can be adjustable more that the job duties that is embedded in a company policy. So what if there is a waiting period. It is a great time to reflect and take on a project and develop a sense of purpose on a daily basis. Got to pay the bills? People have to distinguish a job and a career. If you know that a minial job will pay the phone bill, that is not a career choice. A career relates to passion. You have to love what you do and the amount of money you receive is secondary. Your mental health is more valuable than a job. So folks, just ask yourself what will make you happy and go back in time and think about those memorable moments.
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
Take those contract jobs!
If you ever get an offer to do a contract job and you are unemployed, my advice is to take the job even if it pays you less than what you were making in your last job.
A contract job will:
Many times, people fall into a concept of idealism and don't realize that rejecting those jobs is rejecting opportunities.
A contract job will:
- open doors to new opportunities that may lead into permanent positions
- increase your job history
- show potential employers that you have made an effort in your job search
- maintain your skills in the workplace
- increase your opportunity to networking circles
Many times, people fall into a concept of idealism and don't realize that rejecting those jobs is rejecting opportunities.
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
March Forward!
March forward is the attitude we should be having at the moment. Things are slowly picking up and companies are hiring....slowly. So what can you do if you don't have a lead or an interview?
It's time to brush up on your resume, relook at the projects you did at your last job where you exceled at. The number 1 mistake that people do is they forget to mention the Powerpoint presentation that gave the "ooohs" from the audience they were presenting to. Or the fundraising event that gave your company a good name. The reason why is that when folks get layed off, they tend to be reactive and be in panic mode and forget that looking for a new job is a full time job. This means you have to redo you resume over and over again just like any project you have to do at work. My advice is take the time to reflect and do a bit of soul searching. I know that sounds new age but the reality is that you are the only one that knows what you have done and are capable of doing.
What happens if you have a void in your resume due to job searching? The number 1 answer that comes to mind is you've been looking all that time. Why not think about the volunteer work you did in the mean time? Or the personal projects you've always wanted to work on and you finally did? It is imperative to describe the time and the action, task, and the mission you were trying to accomplish during this time. You will be surprise what you've accomplished when you put in down on paper. You may think or worry that it won't look professional but there are ways. For example, you were helping your daughter sell girl scout cookie. How would you mention that on a resume? This is how:
Volunteer Work:
Fundraiser Leader: Girl Scout Association of New England (GSANE)(or wherever)- Developed and implemented fundraising strategies to increase funds for GSANE. Strategically sent massive promotional detailing to corporation and small businesses. Increase sales from 5% to 15% in the course of a monthly timeframe....Blah Blah Blah. Get the point? Ok, now its you turn to try this out.
Have fun do this...you'll be suprise what you come up with, resourcefully speaking.
It's time to brush up on your resume, relook at the projects you did at your last job where you exceled at. The number 1 mistake that people do is they forget to mention the Powerpoint presentation that gave the "ooohs" from the audience they were presenting to. Or the fundraising event that gave your company a good name. The reason why is that when folks get layed off, they tend to be reactive and be in panic mode and forget that looking for a new job is a full time job. This means you have to redo you resume over and over again just like any project you have to do at work. My advice is take the time to reflect and do a bit of soul searching. I know that sounds new age but the reality is that you are the only one that knows what you have done and are capable of doing.
What happens if you have a void in your resume due to job searching? The number 1 answer that comes to mind is you've been looking all that time. Why not think about the volunteer work you did in the mean time? Or the personal projects you've always wanted to work on and you finally did? It is imperative to describe the time and the action, task, and the mission you were trying to accomplish during this time. You will be surprise what you've accomplished when you put in down on paper. You may think or worry that it won't look professional but there are ways. For example, you were helping your daughter sell girl scout cookie. How would you mention that on a resume? This is how:
Volunteer Work:
Fundraiser Leader: Girl Scout Association of New England (GSANE)(or wherever)- Developed and implemented fundraising strategies to increase funds for GSANE. Strategically sent massive promotional detailing to corporation and small businesses. Increase sales from 5% to 15% in the course of a monthly timeframe....Blah Blah Blah. Get the point? Ok, now its you turn to try this out.
Have fun do this...you'll be suprise what you come up with, resourcefully speaking.
Monday, February 1, 2010
Love yourself by being passionate...
It's Valentine's month and its a reminder to think about your loved ones. However, the most important person you should be thinking about is yourself. Love yourself by being passionate about something you want to do or learn.
As the economy slowly recovers, it is a great time investing in yourself. Yes, this means go back to school and learn something new. As you can see, unemployment rates are still high (currently 9.2 in MA), and jobs need to be created. While new businesses are being invested, and new technology is being discovered ( like in green technology), take the time to figure out what might get you hired and balance it in what you want to do. Without passion, you don't have drive, without drive, you don't have direction.
Even though this process isn't instantaneous, you need to start somewhere and soon. Do it even if it fails. With failure, you gain knowledge or lessons learned. Most importantly, this leads to experience. And if you have experience, you can add it on your resume and it can only make you look more marketable in the workplace. Its all cyclical and all positive, resourcefully speaking.
As the economy slowly recovers, it is a great time investing in yourself. Yes, this means go back to school and learn something new. As you can see, unemployment rates are still high (currently 9.2 in MA), and jobs need to be created. While new businesses are being invested, and new technology is being discovered ( like in green technology), take the time to figure out what might get you hired and balance it in what you want to do. Without passion, you don't have drive, without drive, you don't have direction.
Even though this process isn't instantaneous, you need to start somewhere and soon. Do it even if it fails. With failure, you gain knowledge or lessons learned. Most importantly, this leads to experience. And if you have experience, you can add it on your resume and it can only make you look more marketable in the workplace. Its all cyclical and all positive, resourcefully speaking.
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